6 Things I Still Can’t Get Used to in Korea ⭐

 

6 Things I’ll Never Get Used to in Korea

Living in South Korea has changed me in many ways. I’ve learned the culture, picked up habits, and slowly adapted to life here. But even after all this time, there are still some things I just can’t fully get used to.

Here are six of them.

1. The Speed of Everything

Life in Korea moves fast—really fast. People walk quickly, eat quickly, and even make decisions quickly. Coming from island life, where everything is slower and more relaxed, this was a big adjustment. I’ve learned to keep up… but deep inside, I’m still moving on island time.

2. The Cold Winters

Growing up in warm places like Fiji and Hawaii, I still find winter in Korea a shock every year. The freezing air, the layers of clothing, and the struggle just to go outside—it’s something I don’t think I’ll ever truly enjoy.

3. Silence on Public Transport

On buses and subways, it’s usually very quiet. People don’t talk loudly, and everyone keeps to themselves. Back home, public spaces are often full of conversation and laughter. In Korea, the silence can feel a bit strange—even now.

4. Work Comes First

The work culture here is strong. People are dedicated, hardworking, and often very busy. While I respect that, I sometimes miss the balance of island life, where relationships and relaxation often come first.

5. The Pressure to Keep Up

There’s an unspoken pressure in Korea to keep moving, keep improving, and keep up with everyone else. Whether it’s work, appearance, or lifestyle, it can feel intense at times. Coming from a more laid-back culture, I still find this challenging.

6. Being Far From the Ocean

This one is personal. Growing up surrounded by the ocean, I never realized how much it meant to me until I didn’t have it anymore. Living in a big city like Seoul, I sometimes miss the sound of the waves, the open space, and that peaceful feeling of being near the water.

Living in Korea has been an incredible experience, and I’ve grown a lot because of it. But maybe the truth is—you’re not supposed to get used to everything.

Some parts of you will always belong to where you came from. And for me, that island part will always be there, no matter how long I stay in Korea.



Thanks for reading Seoulful Islander, a blog about life in South Korea.



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